Dr. Sahakian and Your Fabulous Staff
at
Pacific Fertility Center,
From Cecily Harrison and Daughter Arabella
My
Success Story
I knew I would be a mother, I just didn’t know it
would take so long. By the time I found my way to Pacific Fertility
Center, I was 43 and had just ended a long-term relationship. Dr.
Sahakian and I first spoke on the phone-he called at exactly the time
that was scheduled, and he spoke to me as if I was his only
patient-every question was answered calmly, informatively, and
compassionately.
When I met him in his office, I liked him
immediately, and was impressed that he spoke five languages, like some
kind of global fertility guru! He told me we would be aggressive, and
that although there was a possibility I might have multiples, I would be
the first in his experience at my age to have more than two.
I gave
myself injections twice a day-this from a person who once fainted at
the sight of needles! By this time of my retrieval, my body was poked
and bruised, and my ovaries ached, but when the ultrasound showed six
good follicles-five on the left, and one on the right-I was on a cloud.
When
I came into the office for the transfer, one of nurses asked, “Where’s
your husband?” “I’m sure he’s out there somewhere, “I said, and we
laughed. She kept apologizing, but it didn’t bother me in the
slightest. I knew what I was doing was bold, but I had run out of time
waiting for the lover who also wants to be a father, and was very
confident in my decision. Dr. Sahakian retrieved 5 eggs, four of which
fertilized and made very good quality embryos. “I hadn’t expected these
kinds of results,” he said, adding that my chances were now 35%. I made
an appointment for an adoption seminar the week of my pregnancy
results, and bought three home tests as I got close. Two lines. Pink.
Blue. All positive, and on my 44th birthday. Imagine my jubilance to
cancel the seminar!
On December 2, at 2:00, thirty-six hours, two
birthing room, two nurse shift changes, and two anesthesiologists
later, I looked into my daughter’s eyes. Nothing can prepare you. A
lifetime of waiting, satisfied in a moment. Every heightened sense,
beauty, brilliant idea or prose, it was all there, as Arabella stared
back at me, her eyes pinched as if to say, “What kept you.” My best
friend cut the cord. I will have no difficulty telling my daughter how
much she was wanted, and I can prove it because I keep journals, and
letter to the daughter I knew I would have one day.
I will tell her
how I toured the world, in cars, subways, and taxis, dreaming of her,
how I named her, and held her in the mother’s arms of my mind. I will
respect the miracle that she is, and tell her things as they become
apparent and appropriate, and I will love her to the heavens and more.
Thank
you, Dr. Sahakian, and all the wonderful staff at Pacific Fertility
Center, for helping me bring my daughter, Arabella Grace, into the
world.